LUBRICANTS
Glide Happy! Everything you need to know about lubricants. For example, why some lubricants are great for (erotic) massage, and why some lubricants and massage oils are good for the vagina and others aren't.
There are roughly three types of lubricant : silicone-based, water-based, and oil-based. Hundreds of variations of these three types are available, some body-safe and some environmentally friendly. They are also available in flavors and fragrances. We only sell safe silicone- and water-based products.
The different types of lubricants are explained in the tabs below. Welcome to the world of lubricants!
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Silicone and water based
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Plant-based water and massage oil
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Lubricant and anal sex
SILICONE BASE
A silicone-based lubricant contains a type of silicone that is harmless to the body. The molecules are too large to penetrate the mucous membranes and skin, so the gel isn't absorbed into the body. Silicone lubricant is also easily removed by the vagina and uterus. When used anally (recommended lubricant), you simply excrete it. A major advantage of silicone-based lubricant is its long-lasting glide because it forms a layer on the skin. It also remains slippery underwater because it doesn't contain water itself. Ideal for sex in the hot tub or pool. Silicone glide is safe to use with latex (condoms). And it's wonderful for erotic body massage!
DISADVANTAGE OF SILICONE LUBRICANT
A disadvantage of silicone lubricant is that it's not compatible with silicone sex toys, unless otherwise indicated. It can also stain your sheets (check before use). Silicone lubricant is often a bit more expensive, but also very economical.
TRIPLEGLIDE: 3 IN 1
A silicone lubricant that does work well with your silicone sex toys is our own brand TRIPLEGLIDE 1+1=3. This lubricant combines massage and lubricant and can therefore be used with silicone sex products. TRIPLEGLIDE has a slightly more luxurious texture, which can make it feel oily, even though it doesn't contain any oil. Silicone glide isn't sticky, is wonderfully soft, and doesn't block pores. Condom- safe.
WATER-BASED LUBRICANT
Water-based lubricants are available with or without flavors. For flavor, the lubricant is often sweetened with the addition of glycerin. Glycerin can affect vaginal flora, so be aware of this!
DISADVANTAGE OF WATER-BASED
Water is a naturally occurring substance in the body, which has the disadvantage that it's easily absorbed by the skin, quickly losing its lubricating effect. This doesn't have to be a problem if you replenish it as needed.
SAFE & LONG-LASTING SMOOTHNESS
At Mail & Female, we sell a delicious selection of flavored, water-based lubricants from our favorite brand, Sensuva . We focus on vagina-safe products and primarily offer lubricants without added parabens or glycerin, such as Pink and the organic Sliquid . These lubricants also stay smooth longer and don't dry sticky.
LUBRICANTS WITH EXTRA FUN FACTOR
Products that offer something extra are mainly water-based. Some have a warming or cooling effect, or they come in beautifully designed bottles. Sensuva lubricants, with flavors and special effects, are delicious and honest. For example, the cooling lubricant SENSUVA | Ice moisturizer | stimulating & cooling . The organic brand Sliquid also offers a warming formula.
No Stains and Safe for Everything
Water-based lubricants do not stain and are safe to use with latex (condoms) and all types of (sex) toys.
SPECIAL LUBRICANT FOR PAINFUL PENETRATION
Do you experience chafing during penetration? This could be a temporary cause during menopause or after surgery. But even if you haven't had penetrative sex in a while, try Pjur Repair . The hyaluronic acid in Pjur Repair ensures that moisture binds to your skin, helping it to develop as a natural cushion.
OIL-BASED LUBRICANT
Oil-based lubricants (including baby oil or vegetable oil) are strongly discouraged. Oil is too greasy for the vagina and uterus, it clogs pores, and creates a breeding ground for bacteria. Oil also corrodes rubber materials – latex – so this also applies to condoms! Oil can be used for anal sex and massage. It also provides excellent lubrication for masturbation, although we recommend silicone lubricant for this purpose.
(ORGANIC) PLANT-BASED LUBRICANT
The growing interest in fair and safe products is also resonating with lubricant manufacturers. " Pink Natural" is a deliciously smooth product made with natural plant-based ingredients. The " Sliquid " brand is organic and has a beautiful formula with beneficial ingredients.
If you like to use a vegetable oil before sex, we advise you:
• Coconut oil;
• Jojoba oil;
• Soybean oil.
These aren't actually oils, but wax . For that reason, wax is suitable for sex and can also be safely used with condoms. The fact that this wax is called oil is confusing.
MASSAGE OIL
Wonderful oils for massage include those from ' Intimate Earth' . A beautiful selection of delightful scents, all organic. These oils are based on sweet almond oil, enriched with natural essences . They have a subtle scent and are never overpowering. It's important, of course, that they are safe for your body, including inside your body. Another wonderful massage oil is Serenity. from ' Kamasutra ', sweet almond oil with marjoram and lavender.
EROTIC MASSAGE
An erotic massage is a special gift you can give to your loved one or even receive yourself. We have excellent books with techniques for these types of massage. Erotic massage includes massage of the yoni (vulva & vagina) and lingam massage (penis & testicles). We recommend our e-book: Erotic Massage, which you can download for free via the link or on our Love Academy website.
WAX-BASED MASSAGE CANDLES
Delightfully scented massage candles that, once melted, transform into a warm massage oil: 'Swede Senze' . The base of this massage candle is made from vegetable wax, specifically jojoba and soy wax. Available in a variety of delightful scents. This base is therefore safe for all sex, toys, and condoms.
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Lubricant is the bottom line with anal toys
If you prefer a water-based lubricant, extra-thick water-based lubricants are best suited for anal sex. The most well-known is KY . There are also special formulas, such as the anal slide from Nexus . During anal sex, you don't have the "natural" help of bodily fluids, so good lubrication is very important. The anus is also a delicate area that can easily be damaged. Although a thicker lubricant offers more benefits, we prefer a silicone-based lubricant over other options. Silicone lubricant isn't absorbed by the skin and therefore stays slippery longer.
