OUR
MAGIC WORKSHOPS
Do you want to learn something new or are you curious about what you can learn for your sex life?
Then you are completely in the right place with us! Our hands-on workshops give you tools and the know-how with which you will certainly increase your sex pleasure.
This is not just about the techniques, because you also learn more about yourself and your possible relationship. You will enjoy the knowledge & insights you gain for a lifetime.
Our workshops are stylish, playful and always fully clothed.
Be welcome & enjoy!
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1.
VIDEO WORKSHOP
'Handjob & Lingam Massage' -
2.
VIDEO WORKSHOP
'Fingering & Yoni Massage' -
3.
VIDEO WORKSHOP
'Masturbation & Self Love for the Yoni'
JOIN OFF & LINGAM MASSAGE
Jerking off is an art and a skill! It must be said that it is quite difficult, because the penis owner has his own way of doing this. And as a giver you yourself do not feel the effect of what you do, and besides, everyone is different. But the good news is that you can learn it from experienced sexperts.
Our 'Original Workshop Subtraction & Lingam Massage' has been popular for years and has been enjoyed and successfully practiced by many people. Madeleine gives this workshop live in the Mail & Female store.
our online video workshop:
Complete with explanation of techniques, fragments and in-depth information in a special learning environment.
You can follow this video workshop online on our learning platform and you can watch it in your own time.
WHAT WILL YOU LEARN?
- You are going to learn about penis pleasure points.
- You will learn how to jerk off quickly and without a wrist cramp.
- Giving a sensual, erotic and Taoist penis massage.
- You will learn the inner and outer ingredients to bring and keep the recipient in ecstasy.
WHY SHOULD YOU LEARN THIS?
- This stimulates the connection, appreciation and love between you and your partner.
- It increases your self-confidence through your knowledge and skills about pleasure.
- You learn to give & receive without expecting anything in return.
- You get to know and stimulate the body and pleasure points better.
- The attention you pay to your partner improves your entire sex life.
- You broaden your sexual spectrum: by having more tools in your sexual life, enrich
and you broaden your sexual spectrum and the playing field becomes more exciting, bigger, richer and more enjoyable!
WHAT DO YOU NEED?
- For the exercises in the workshop 'Jerk Off & Lingam Massage' you need a dildo with a vacuum foot and a silicone based lubricant.
- You need a silicone lubricant to give a lingam massage. With our exclusive offer of the 'Super' package, you also have the extra titillating ingredients at home.
content packages
CHOOSE FROM THE FOLLOWING PACKAGES BELOW
drop your package directly in your shopping cart!
Choose from the following packages:
- 'fine':
Workshop video including learning environment: 29.99. - 'great':
Workshop video including learning environment + dildo & two sachets of lubricant: 59.99 (incl. shipping costs). -
'Super':
Workshop video including learning environment + dildo, lubricant, cock ring, massage candle and caressing plume: 89.99 (incl. shipping costs).
* All our products are body friendly.
Complete your order below & have fun!
Fine
Great
Super
OUR SEXPERT
Meet Madeline
Madeleine has been part of the Mail & Female team for over 10 years and has been a workshop expert for several years. With her knowledge & experience, she has given our famous workshop 'Deduction For & By Women' a completely new look. The title of the workshop has been slightly changed, but don't stress, the content is still the same, whether or not reinforced!
With her enthusiasm, not to mention her humor, she has inspired many women to take the subject of subtraction seriously. "Don't subtract, but increase".
After taking this workshop you realize that there is a lot to learn in the art of 'joying together', and that sex has so much more in store for you if you are willing to put in the effort!
Don't expect elaborate woolly stories, but an interesting sparkling workshop full of practical tips and experiences. Madeleine effortlessly makes the connection between sex and pleasure.
REVIEWS
"I first did this workshop 10 years ago with you and now again via Zoom. This workshop is so great that my entire circle of friends have done it on my recommendation. It has brought so much to my relationship with my husband that I recommend it to everyone I recommend it. In one word, it is a great course that you enjoy together. I am especially grateful because it has given me so much more confidence. After 20 years of marriage, after the workshop we entered a new phase together where I can learn more dare to take the initiative. And that is why we also did a tantra course together. I was looking forward to a refresher and I also liked the deduction workshop so much. It made me completely happy. Thank you dear women and keep it up! "
Anonymous about the workshop 'Suck Off & Lingam Massage'
"I could always get so impatient with my partner's good intentions. I usually quickly took over from him. That didn't feel good for us together, which is why I gave him this workshop as a gift. That meant a lot to us, also because we are actually only now discovering that sex is also something you can learn I really didn't know how to make it clear to him why his efforts weren't working for me I found the stress super annoying because not fun for him and I was actually also angry about it. All over and over! We have benefited so much from the workshop and learned so many special things about how sexual energy works and how to evoke it. And indeed, as you say: sex is not that difficult at all, but you have to know!
PS We also immediately purchased the books you recommend. As far as we are concerned, they are also real recommendations. Thanks for everything!"
G. about the workshop 'Fingering & Yoni Massage' "
"I had thought for the first time in my life that I should take time out for my sex. Coincidentally, because I came across the masturbation workshop. I have no problems with masturbation and do it quite a lot. For me it's almost a kind of routine. My way is usually the same: I have a nice vibrator and dildo with my favorite fantasy and I come effortlessly. Fine in itself, but of course I also knew that there had to be more between heaven and earth. I was allowed to do that experience since doing the workshop with you. I have had an experience with myself that deeply moves me. My body is charged and I feel as if I am aware of myself for the first time. I feel that I am at the beginning of a journey in which I get to know myself. Fascinating! I feel that sex is not about cumming, but about getting to yourself. I'm curious how this will develop further."
Anonymous about the workshop 'Masturbation & Self Love for the Yoni'
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
What happens after the purchase?
Is this workshop with clothes on?
Yes, we practice on a dildo. This way you can surprise someone later and you already master the techniques!
Who is this workshop intended for?
This workshop is for anyone who wants to learn great jerk off techniques. The workshop is designed to jerk someone else off. So you learn to give someone else a great experience.
Do I need a partner for this workshop?
No, you do not immediately need a partner to follow this workshop. We learn it on a practice model, a dildo. Of course it is fun to apply them, but you will take these techniques with you for the rest of your life.
Can I give a workshop as a gift?
Do I learn practical techniques?
Absolute! We give you 12 massage techniques and grips that the recipient is most likely not familiar with. These techniques come from, among other things, the Taoist teachings. We teach you how to jerk off and give a penis massage that enriches your sex life.
In addition, we also pay attention to important points such as breathing, dynamic touch, and the outer and inner environment that turn ordinary jerking off into a pure labor of love.
My sex life is already very good. What more can I get out of this workshop?
Your sex is not static, it is constantly changing and evolving, just like you! That's why it's so good to learn new things, explore boundaries and play with them.
What you can get from this workshop are not only the practical techniques. But we also explore the tension between seduction, the giving and delaying of pleasure and the game of giving & receiving. There is something new for everyone to explore.
Is this workshop only aimed at the enjoyment of the recipient?
Although this workshop is about how to give someone else an ecstatic penis massage, that does not mean that you as a giver will not enjoy it!
We learn from countless testimonials that the giver experiences ecstatic pleasure to see their partner enjoying themselves like this. It boosts the instigator of all this ecstasy and makes you feel powerful, sexy and skilled!
How much time should I invest in this workshop?
We recommend that you take at least 1.5 hours for it, so that you can really absorb the material. Of course you can always choose to follow the workshop in stages in your own time.
Will I always have access to the content and video lessons?
Yes, you keep access to the learning platform so that you can always go back and review the workshop. Even if you have followed the workshop completely.
Can I also watch the workshops on my tablet or smartphone?
Yes, that's possible. With your login details you have access on a smartphone or tablet. Keep an eye on; the sound of the video does not turn on automatically. To do this, click on the sound icon in the video. Also, the workshop platform does not work on outdated internet browsers (see next question).
On which internet browsers can I follow the workshops?
The workshop learning platform does not work on Internet Explorer, Linux, Chromium and outdated browsers. Which ones? On the Desktop; Chrome, Firefox, Safari and Microsoft Edge. On smartphone; IOS Safari 11 and above, Chrome and Samsung internet. Make sure you have updated the latest version of the browser for a carefree and fast operation of the learning platform.
Is a refund possible?
No. After purchasing the workshop, we do not give a refund.
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FINGING & YONI MASSAGE
Fingering someone else is what you call a challenge and you often hear that it is difficult.
In this workshop we demystify fingering and vaginal pleasure, by teaching it with the right techniques, a loving attitude and lots of fun!
We go into detail about all points of pleasure, how to touch them and which ingredients are essential to finger someone nice and quickly and bring them into ecstasy. We also investigate the Yoni Massage, a relaxing, orgasmic massage of the vulva and vagina.
Yoni means 'sacred temple' in Sanskrit - and that's how we're going to approach her.
The 'Original Workshop Fingering & Yoni Massage' is given by our sexpert: Froukje.
our online video workshop:
Complete with explanation of techniques, fragments and in-depth information in a special learning environment.
You can follow this video workshop online on our learning platform and you can watch it in your own time.
WHAT WILL YOU LEARN?
- The full anatomy and pleasure points.
- Fast and nice fingering.
- The power of ritual, attention and intention.
- A relaxing and ecstatic Taoist vulva and vagina massage.
- The inner and outer ingredients to bring her into ecstasy and keep her there.
WHY SHOULD YOU LEARN THIS?
- This stimulates the connection, appreciation and love between you and your partner.
- It increases your self-confidence through your knowledge and skills about pleasure.
- You learn to give & receive without expecting anything in return.
- You get to know and stimulate the body and pleasure points better.
- The attention you pay to your partner improves your entire sex life.
-
You broaden your sexual spectrum: by having more tools in your sexual life, enrich
and you broaden your sexual spectrum and the playing field becomes more exciting, bigger, richer
and more enjoyable!
WHAT DO YOU NEED?
- For the exercises in the workshop 'Fingering & Yoni Massage' you need a grapefruit.
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To give a Yoni Massage you need a silicone lubricant and a dildo. With our exclusive offer: Super Package you also have the extra titillating ingredients at home.
content packages
CHOOSE FROM THE FOLLOWING PACKAGES BELOW
drop your package directly in your shopping cart!
Choose from the following packages:
- 'fine':
Workshop video including learning environment: 29.99. - 'great':
Workshop video including learning environment + dildo & lubricant: 7 4.99 (incl. shipping costs). - 'Super':
Workshop video including learning environment + dildo, lubricant, massage candle and caressing plume: 84.99 (incl. shipping costs).
* All our products are body friendly.
Complete your order below & have fun!
Fine
Great
Super
OUR SEXPERT
Meet Froukje
Froukje studied Cultural Anthropology (UvA) and specializes in Gender & Sexuality Studies at San Francisco State University. She grew up fascinated by how people express gender identity and sexuality.
REVIEWS
"I first did this workshop 10 years ago with you and now again via Zoom. This workshop is so great that my entire circle of friends have done it on my recommendation. It has brought so much to my relationship with my husband that I recommend it to everyone I recommend it. In one word, it is a great course that you enjoy together. I am especially grateful because it has given me so much more confidence. After 20 years of marriage, after the workshop we entered a new phase together where I can learn more dare to take the initiative. And that is why we also did a tantra course together. I was looking forward to a refresher and I also liked the deduction workshop so much. It made me completely happy. Thank you dear women and keep it up! "
Anonymous about the workshop 'Suck Off & Lingam Massage'
"I could always get so impatient with my partner's good intentions. I usually quickly took over from him. That didn't feel good for us together, which is why I gave him this workshop as a gift. That meant a lot to us, also because we are actually only now discovering that sex is also something you can learn I really didn't know how to make it clear to him why his efforts didn't work for me I found the stress super annoying because not fun for him and I was actually also angry about it. All over and over! We have benefited so much from the workshop and learned so many special things about how sexual energy works and how to evoke it. And indeed, as you say: sex is not that difficult at all, but you have to know!
PS We also immediately purchased the books you recommend. As far as we are concerned, they are also real recommendations. Thanks for everything!"
G. about the workshop 'Fingering & Yoni Massage' "
"I had thought for the first time in my life that I should take time out for my sex. Coincidentally, because I came across the masturbation workshop. I have no problems with masturbation and do it quite a lot. For me it's almost a kind of routine. My way is usually the same: I have a nice vibrator and dildo with my favorite fantasy and I come effortlessly. Fine in itself, but of course I also knew that there had to be more between heaven and earth. I was allowed to do that experience since doing the workshop with you. I have had an experience with myself that deeply moves me. My body is charged and I feel as if I am aware of myself for the first time. I feel that I am at the beginning of a journey in which I get to know myself. Fascinating! I feel that sex is not about cumming, but about getting to yourself. I'm curious how this will develop further."
Anonymous about the workshop 'Masturbation & Self Love for the Yoni'
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
What happens after the purchase?
Is this workshop with clothes on?
Yes, we keep the clothes on and practice on a grapefruit. This way you will soon have the technique in your fingers and you can give someone a fantastic experience.
Who is this workshop intended for?
This workshop is for anyone who wants to become a finger pro! This workshop is specifically designed to finger someone else and give them a great experience.
Our other 'Masturbation & Self Love ' workshop is designed to finger yourself and give a yoni massage.
Do I need a partner for this workshop?
No, you do not immediately need a partner to follow this workshop. We learn it on a practice model - a grapefruit. Of course it is fun to apply them, but you will take these techniques with you for the rest of your life.
Can I give a workshop as a gift?
Do I learn practical techniques?
Absolute! We give you 15 wonderful massage techniques and handles. These techniques are inspired by Taoism and are about expanding sexual energy and pleasure.
In addition, we also pay attention to important points such as breathing, dynamic touch, and the outer and inner environment that turn ordinary fingering into a pure labor of love.
My sex life is already very good. What more can I get out of this workshop?
Sexuality is not something static, it is constantly changing and developing, just like you! That's why it's so much fun to learn new things, explore boundaries and play with them.
What you can get from this workshop are not only the practical techniques. But we also investigate the tension between seduction, the giving and delaying of pleasure and the game of giving&receiving. So there is something new for everyone to explore.
Is this workshop only aimed at the enjoyment of the recipient?
Although this workshop is about how to give someone else an ecstatic vagina massage, that does not mean that you as a giver will not enjoy it!
From many testimonials we can see how much pleasure it brings the givers of the massage to see their partner enjoying themselves. On top of that, as the instigator of all this ecstasy, you will feel powerful, sexy and skilled! How wonderful is it when you see your partner so curled up with pleasure and delight, and you bring it all?
How much time should I invest in this workshop?
We recommend that you take at least 1 hour for it so that you can really absorb the material. Of course you can always choose to follow the workshop in stages in your own time.
Will I always have access to the content and video lessons?
Yes, you keep access to the learning platform so that you can always go back and review the workshop.
Can I also watch the workshops on my tablet or smartphone?
Yes, that's possible. With your login details you have access on a smartphone or tablet. Keep an eye on; the sound of the video does not turn on automatically. To do this, click on the sound icon in the video. Also, the workshop platform does not work on outdated internet browsers (see next question).
On which internet browsers can I follow the workshops?
The workshop learning platform does not work on Internet Explorer, Linux, Chromium and outdated browsers. Which ones? On the Desktop; Chrome, Firefox, Safari and Microsoft Edge. On smartphone; IOS Safari 11 and above, Chrome and Samsung Internet. Make sure you have updated the latest version of the browser for a carefree and fast operation of the learning platform.
Is a refund possible?
No. After purchasing the workshop, we do not give a refund.
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MASTURBATION & SELF LOVE
Talking about sex is usually about sex in relation to the other person. In this 'Masturbation & Self Love' workshop we focus entirely on our own capacity for autonomous pleasure and the art of self love.
This workshop is the basis of all our workshops, because love and sexual pleasure starts with yourself. Self-knowledge, self-love, self-confidence and self-touch!
This workshop is about your feeling and the subtle processes of your body, your vagina
and your own eroticism.
This workshop is for & by you!
The 'Original Workshop Masturbation & Self Love' is given by our sexpert: Froukje.
our online video workshop:
Complete with worksheets, assignments, explanation of techniques and deepening in a special learning environment. You can follow this video workshop online on our learning platform and you can watch it in your own time.
WHAT WILL YOU LEARN?
- The full anatomy and pleasure points.
- The meaning of self-love.
- Insight into your personal, sexual desire.
- The power of ritual, attention and intention.
- A relaxing and ecstatic Taoist vulva and vagina massage.
- The inner and outer ingredients to bring yourself into ecstasy and stay there.
WHY SHOULD YOU LEARN THIS?
- It increases your self-confidence and self-love.
- You get to know and stimulate your body and pleasure points better.
- The attention you pay to yourself improves your entire sex life, including partner sex.
-
You broaden your sexual spectrum: by having more tools in your sexual life, enrich
and you broaden your sexual spectrum and the playing field becomes more exciting, bigger, richer
and more enjoyable!
WHAT DO YOU NEED?
- For 'Masturbation & Self Love for the Yoni' you need a grapefruit and lubricant.
content packages
CHOOSE FROM THE FOLLOWING PACKAGES BELOW
drop your package directly in your shopping cart!
Choose from the following packages:
- 'fine':
Workshop video including learning environment: 29.99. - 'great':
Workshop video including learning environment + dildo & lubricant: 7 4.99 (incl. shipping costs). - 'Super':
Workshop video including learning environment + dildo, lubricant, massage candle and caressing plume: 84.99 (incl. shipping costs).
* All our products are body friendly.
Complete your order below & have fun!
Fine
Great
Super
OUR SEXPERT
Meet Froukje
Froukje studied Cultural Anthropology (UvA) and specializes in Gender & Sexuality Studies at San Francisco State University. She grew up fascinated by how people express gender identity and sexuality.
REVIEWS
"I first did this workshop 10 years ago with you and now again via Zoom. This workshop is so great that my entire circle of friends have done it on my recommendation. It has brought so much to my relationship with my husband that I recommend it to everyone I recommend it. In one word, it is a great course that you enjoy together. I am especially grateful because it has given me so much more confidence. After 20 years of marriage, after the workshop we entered a new phase together where I can learn more dare to take the initiative. And that is why we also did a tantra course together. I was looking forward to a refresher and I also liked the deduction workshop so much. It made me completely happy. Thank you dear women and keep it up! "
Anonymous about the workshop 'Suck Off & Lingam Massage'
"I could always get so impatient with my partner's good intentions. I usually quickly took over from him. That didn't feel good for us together, which is why I gave him this workshop as a gift. That meant a lot to us, also because we are actually only now discovering that sex is also something you can learn I really didn't know how to make it clear to him why his efforts didn't work for me I found the stress super annoying because not fun for him and I was actually also angry about it. All over and over! We have benefited so much from the workshop and learned so many special things about how sexual energy works and how to evoke it. And indeed, as you say: sex is not that difficult at all, but you have to know!
PS We also immediately purchased the books you recommend. As far as we are concerned, they are also real recommendations. Thanks for everything!"
G. about the workshop 'Fingering & Yoni Massage' "
"I had thought for the first time in my life that I should take time out for my sex. Coincidentally, because I came across the masturbation workshop. I have no problems with masturbation and do it quite a lot. For me it's almost a kind of routine. My way is usually the same: I have a nice vibrator and dildo with my favorite fantasy and I come effortlessly. Fine in itself, but of course I also knew that there had to be more between heaven and earth. I was allowed to do that experience since doing the workshop with you. I have had an experience with myself that deeply moves me. My body is charged and I feel as if I am aware of myself for the first time. I feel that I am at the beginning of a journey in which I get to know myself. Fascinating! I feel that sex is not about cumming, but about getting to yourself. I'm curious how this will develop further."
Anonymous about the workshop 'Masturbation & Self Love for the Yoni'
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
What happens after the purchase?
Is this workshop with clothes on?
Yes, we practice on a dildo. This way you can surprise someone later and you already master the techniques!
Who is this workshop intended for?
This workshop is for anyone who has a vagina and wants to discover even more pleasure, feeling and ecstasy within themselves. It's a masturbation and self-love workshop, just for you!
Although we often write 'her' and talk about 'women', it can of course also be that you do not identify as a woman but do have a vagina. Everyone is welcome here to develop in love, fun and freedom.
Do I need a partner for this workshop?
No absolutely not. A side effect is that you also learn to communicate your wishes better to potential partners, because you will soon know better what you like!
Can I give a workshop as a gift?
Do I learn practical techniques?
Yes, you will learn 20 massage and finger techniques to explore on yourself. In addition, we also pay attention to important points such as breathing, dynamic touch, fantasy, and the outer and inner environment.
You get to know yourself better, your anatomy, pleasure points, what you like. In this way, regular and familiar masturbation becomes an adventurous and erotic journey of discovery with the most important person in your life; yourself!
My SOLO sex life is already very nice. What more can I get out of this workshop?
There is something for everyone in this workshop that you can explore further, maybe you want to stimulate more feeling in your vagina, discover the G-Zone and learn to squirt, feel more love for your vulva and body, are you curious about tantric massage techniques or do you want to feel your orgasm, which mainly takes place in the pelvis, throughout your body?
We give you practical and inspiring techniques, tips and exercises. Allowing you to explore and enrich your solo sex life, what more will there be to discover?
How much time should I invest in this workshop?
If you want to follow the entire workshop in one zip, we recommend that you take at least 2 hours for it so that you can really absorb the material.
The best thing, however, is if you follow the workshop in stages. This way you can try out the exercises, integrate them and continue with the workshop when it suits you.
Will I always have access to the content and video lessons?
Yes, you keep access to the learning platform so that you can always go back and review the workshop. Even if you have followed the workshop completely.
Can I also watch the workshops on my tablet or smartphone?
Yes, that's possible. With your login details you have access on a smartphone or tablet. Keep an eye on; the sound of the video does not turn on automatically. To do this, click on the sound icon in the video. Also, the workshop platform does not work on outdated internet browsers (see next question).
On which internet browsers can I follow the workshops?
The workshop learning platform does not work on Internet Explorer, Linux, Chromium and outdated browsers. Which ones? On the Desktop; Chrome, Firefox, Safari and Microsoft Edge. On smartphone; IOS Safari 11 and above, Chrome and Samsung Internet. Make sure you have updated the latest version of the browser for a carefree and fast operation of the learning platform.
Is a refund possible?
No. After purchasing the workshop, we do not give a refund.