OUR
MAGIC WORKSHOPS
Do you want to learn something new or are you curious about what you can learn for your sex life?
Then you're in the right place! Our hands-on workshops will give you the tools and know-how to enhance your sexual pleasure.
It's not just about the techniques; you'll also learn more about yourself and your potential relationship. The knowledge and insights you gain will benefit you for a lifetime.
Our workshops are stylish, playful and always with clothes on.
Welcome & enjoy!
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VIDEO WORKSHOP
Jerking off & Lingam Massage -
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VIDEO WORKSHOP
Fingering & Yoni Massage -
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VIDEO WORKSHOP
Masturbation & Self-Love for the Yoni
JERKING & LINGAM MASSAGE
Jerking off is an art and a skill! To be honest, it's quite difficult, because each penis owner has their own way of doing it. And as the giver, you don't feel the effects of what you're doing, and besides, everyone is different. But the good news is, you can learn it from experienced sexperts.
Our "Original Handjob & Lingam Massage Workshop" has been popular for years and has been enjoyed by countless people and successfully put into practice. Madeleine will be teaching this workshop live at the Mail & Female store.
our online video workshop:
Complete with explanations of techniques, fragments and further study in a special learning environment.
You can follow this video workshop online on our learning platform and watch it again in your own time.
WHAT WILL YOU LEARN?
- You will learn about penis pleasure points.
- You will learn how to jerk off quickly and easily without wrist cramps.
- To give a sensual, erotic and Taoist penis massage.
- You will learn the inner and outer ingredients to bring and keep the recipient in ecstasy.
WHY SHOULD YOU LEARN THIS?
- This stimulates the connection, appreciation and love between you and your partner.
- It increases your self-confidence through your knowledge and skills about pleasure.
- You learn to give and receive without expecting anything in return.
- You will learn to better understand and stimulate your body and pleasure points.
- The attention you give to your partner will improve your entire sex life.
- You expand your sexual spectrum: by having more tools in your sexual life, you enrich
and broaden your sexual spectrum and the playing field becomes more exciting, bigger, richer and more pleasurable!
WHAT DO YOU NEED?
- For the exercises in the 'Jerking off & Lingam Massage' workshop, you will need a dildo with a vacuum base and a silicone-based lubricant.
- To give a lingam massage, you'll need a silicone lubricant. With our exclusive "Super" package, you'll also have these extra sensual ingredients at your fingertips.
content packages
CHOOSE FROM THE FOLLOWING PACKAGES BELOW
drop your package directly into your shopping cart!
Choose from the following packages:
- Fine:
Workshop video including learning environment: 29.99. - Great:
Workshop video including learning environment + dildo & two sachets of lubricant: €59.99 (including shipping costs). -
'Super':
Workshop video including learning environment + dildo, lubricant, cock ring, massage candle and stroking feather: 89.99 (including shipping costs).
* All our products are body friendly.
Complete your order below & have fun!
Fine
Great
Super
OUR SEXPERT
Meet Madeleine
Madeleine has been a member of the Mail & Female team for over 10 years and has been a workshop sexpert for several years. With her knowledge and experience, she's given our famous "Handjobs For & By Women" workshop a completely new look. The workshop title has been slightly modified, but don't worry, the content is still the same, albeit a bit more intense!
With her enthusiasm, and not to forget her humor, she's inspired many women to seriously approach masturbation. "Don't masturbate, pull up."
Once you've completed this workshop, you'll realize there's so much to learn in the art of "experiencing pleasure together," and that sex has so much more in store for you if you're willing to put in the effort!
Don't expect long, woolly stories, but an interesting, sparkling workshop full of practical tips and experiences. Madeleine effortlessly connects sex and pleasure.
REVIEWS
I first took this workshop with you 10 years ago, and now I'm doing it again via Zoom. This workshop is so amazing that my entire circle of friends took it on my recommendation. It has brought so much to my relationship with my husband that I recommend it to everyone. It's a truly fantastic course that you both have so much fun with. I'm especially grateful because it has given me so much more self-confidence. After 20 years of marriage, we entered a new phase together after the workshop, where I dare to take more initiative. And that's why we also took a tantra course together. I wanted a refresher, and I really enjoyed the handjob workshop. It made me so happy. Thank you, dear women, and keep up the good work!
Anonymous about the workshop 'Subtraction & Lingam Massage'
"I could always get so impatient with my partner's good intentions. I usually quickly adopted his approach. That didn't feel good for us together, which is why I gave him this workshop as a gift. It meant a lot to us, especially because we're only now discovering that sex is something you can learn. I really didn't know how to explain to him why his efforts weren't working for me. I found the stress incredibly annoying, because it wasn't fun for him, and it actually made me angry. It was all over and done with! We benefited so much from the workshop and learned so many special things about how sexual energy works and how you can summon it. And indeed, as you say: sex isn't that difficult at all, but you do have to know it!
PS: We immediately bought the books you recommended. We highly recommend them. Thanks for everything!
G. about the workshop 'Fingering & Yoni Massage' "
For the first time in my life, I decided I needed to take some time for sex. It was a coincidence, because I came across the masturbation workshop. I don't have any problems with masturbation and I do it quite a lot. It's almost a routine for me. My method is usually the same: I have a nice vibrator and dildo, and with my favorite fantasy, I come effortlessly. That's fine in itself, but of course, I also knew there had to be more to it. I've indeed been able to experience that since I took the workshop with you. I've had a personal experience that has deeply moved me. My body is energized and feels like I'm aware of myself for the first time. I feel like I'm at the beginning of a journey in which I'm going to get to know myself. Fascinating! I feel that sex isn't about coming, but about connecting with yourself. I'm curious to see how this develops further.
Anonymous about the workshop 'Masturbation & Self-Love for the Yoni'
FAQ
What happens next after the purchase?
Is this workshop with clothes on?
Yes, we'll practice on a dildo. This way you can surprise someone later, and you'll already have the techniques down pat!
Who is this workshop intended for?
This workshop is for anyone who wants to learn fantastic masturbation techniques. It's designed for masturbating someone else, so you'll learn how to give someone else a great experience.
Do I need a partner for this workshop?
No, you don't necessarily need a partner to take this workshop. We'll learn on a practice model, a dildo. Of course, it's fun to practice, but these techniques will stay with you for the rest of your life.
Can I give a workshop as a gift?
Will I learn practical techniques?
Absolutely! We'll teach you 12 massage techniques and movements that the recipient likely won't be familiar with. These techniques are derived from Taoist teachings, among other things. We'll teach you how to masturbate and give a penis massage that will enrich your sex life.
In addition, we also pay attention to important points such as breathing, dynamic touch, and the external and internal environment that turn a simple handjob into pure labor of love.
My sex life is already great. What more can I get from this workshop?
Your sex isn't static; it's constantly changing and evolving, just like you! That's why it's so good to learn new things, explore boundaries, and play with them.
What you'll gain from this workshop isn't just the practical techniques. We'll also explore the tension between seduction, giving and delaying pleasure, and the interplay of giving and receiving. There's something new for everyone to explore.
Is this workshop only focused on the recipient's pleasure?
Even though this workshop is about giving someone else an ecstatic penis massage, that doesn't mean you, the giver, won't enjoy it!
Countless testimonials tell us that the giver experiences ecstatic pleasure from seeing their partner enjoy themselves so much. It boosts the instigator of all this ecstasy and makes you feel powerful, sexy, and capable!
How much time should I invest in this workshop?
We recommend setting aside at least 1.5 hours for this workshop to truly absorb the material. You can also choose to complete the workshop in stages at your own pace.
Do I always have access to the content and video lessons?
Yes, you'll retain access to the learning platform so you can always return to review the workshop, even after you've completed the entire workshop.
Can I also watch the workshops on my tablet or smartphone?
Yes, that's possible. You can access it on your smartphone or tablet with your login details. Please note: the video's sound doesn't turn on automatically. To do so, click the sound icon in the video. The workshop platform also doesn't work on outdated internet browsers (see next question).
On which internet browsers can I follow the workshops?
The workshop learning platform doesn't work on Internet Explorer, Linux, Chromium, or outdated browsers. Which ones do? On desktop: Chrome, Firefox, Safari, and Microsoft Edge. On smartphones: iOS Safari 11 and later, Chrome, and Samsung Internet. Make sure you've updated to the latest browser version for smooth and fast operation of the learning platform.
Is a refund possible?
No. After purchasing the workshop, we do not provide refunds.
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FINGERING & YONI MASSAGE
Fingering someone else is what you call a challenge and you often hear that it is difficult.
In this workshop, we'll demystify fingering and vaginal pleasure by teaching you the right techniques, a loving attitude, and lots of fun!
We'll delve deeply into all the pleasure points, how to touch them, and the essential ingredients for fingering someone quickly and deliciously, bringing them to ecstasy. We'll also explore Yoni Massage, a relaxing, orgasmic massage of the vulva and vagina.
Yoni means 'sacred temple' in Sanskrit - and that is how we will approach her.
The 'Original Fingering & Yoni Massage Workshop' is given by our sexpert: Froukje.
our online video workshop:
Complete with explanations of techniques, fragments and further study in a special learning environment.
You can follow this video workshop online on our learning platform and watch it again in your own time.
WHAT WILL YOU LEARN?
- The complete anatomy and pleasure points.
- Fast and tasty fingering.
- The power of ritual, attention and intention.
- A relaxing and ecstatic Taoist vulva and vagina massage.
- The inner and outer ingredients to bring her to ecstasy and keep her there.
WHY SHOULD YOU LEARN THIS?
- This stimulates the connection, appreciation and love between you and your partner.
- It increases your self-confidence through your knowledge and skills about pleasure.
- You learn to give and receive without expecting anything in return.
- You will learn to better understand and stimulate your body and pleasure points.
- The attention you give to your partner will improve your entire sex life.
-
You expand your sexual spectrum: by having more tools in your sexual life, you enrich
and you broaden your sexual spectrum and the playing field becomes more exciting, bigger, richer
and more blissful!
WHAT DO YOU NEED?
- For the exercises in the 'Fingering & Yoni Massage' workshop you will need a grapefruit.
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To give a Yoni Massage, you'll need silicone lubricant and a dildo. With our exclusive offer, the Super Package, you'll also have the extra sensual ingredients at your fingertips.
content packages
CHOOSE FROM THE FOLLOWING PACKAGES BELOW
drop your package directly into your shopping cart!
Choose from the following packages:
- Fine:
Workshop video including learning environment: 29.99. - Great:
Workshop video including learning environment + dildo & lubricant: 7 €4.99 (incl. shipping costs). - 'Super':
Workshop video including learning environment + dildo, lubricant, massage candle and stroking feather: 84.99 (including shipping costs).
* All our products are body friendly.
Complete your order below & have fun!
Fine
Great
Super
OUR SEXPERT
Meet Froukje
Froukje studied Cultural Anthropology (University of Amsterdam) and specializes in Gender & Sexuality Studies at San Francisco State University. She grew up fascinated by how people express gender identity and sexuality.
REVIEWS
I first took this workshop with you 10 years ago, and now I'm doing it again via Zoom. This workshop is so amazing that my entire circle of friends took it on my recommendation. It has brought so much to my relationship with my husband that I recommend it to everyone. It's a truly fantastic course that you both have so much fun with. I'm especially grateful because it has given me so much more self-confidence. After 20 years of marriage, we entered a new phase together after the workshop, where I dare to take more initiative. And that's why we also took a tantra course together. I wanted a refresher, and I really enjoyed the handjob workshop. It made me so happy. Thank you, dear women, and keep up the good work!
Anonymous about the workshop 'Subtraction & Lingam Massage'
"I could always get so impatient with my partner's good intentions. I usually quickly adopted his approach. That didn't feel good for us together, which is why I gave him this workshop as a gift. It meant a lot to us, especially because we're only now discovering that sex is something you can learn. I really didn't know how to explain to him why his efforts weren't working for me. I found the stress incredibly annoying, because it wasn't fun for him, and it actually made me angry. It was all over and done with! We benefited so much from the workshop and learned so many special things about how sexual energy works and how you can summon it. And indeed, as you say: sex isn't that difficult at all, but you do have to know it!
PS: We immediately bought the books you recommended. We highly recommend them. Thanks for everything!
G. about the workshop 'Fingering & Yoni Massage' "
For the first time in my life, I decided I needed to take some time for sex. It was a coincidence, because I came across the masturbation workshop. I don't have any problems with masturbation and I do it quite a lot. It's almost a routine for me. My method is usually the same: I have a nice vibrator and dildo, and with my favorite fantasy, I come effortlessly. That's fine in itself, but of course, I also knew there had to be more to it. I've indeed been able to experience that since I took the workshop with you. I've had a personal experience that has deeply moved me. My body is energized and feels like I'm aware of myself for the first time. I feel like I'm at the beginning of a journey in which I'm going to get to know myself. Fascinating! I feel that sex isn't about coming, but about connecting with yourself. I'm curious to see how this develops further.
Anonymous about the workshop 'Masturbation & Self-Love for the Yoni'
FAQ
What happens next after the purchase?
Is this workshop with clothes on?
Yes, we'll keep our clothes on and practice on a grapefruit. That way, you'll have the technique down pat and be able to give someone a fantastic experience.
Who is this workshop intended for?
This workshop is for anyone who wants to become a fingering pro! It's specifically designed to give you the opportunity to finger someone else and have a great experience.
Our other workshop , 'Masturbation & Self-Love ', is designed to explore fingering yourself and giving yourself a yoni massage.
Do I need a partner for this workshop?
No, you don't necessarily need a partner to take this workshop. We'll learn on a practice model – a grapefruit. Of course, it's fun to practice, but these techniques will stay with you for the rest of your life.
Can I give a workshop as a gift?
Will I learn practical techniques?
Absolutely! We'll teach you 15 wonderful massage techniques and grips. These techniques are inspired by Taoism and focus on expanding sexual energy and pleasure.
We also pay attention to important points such as breathing, dynamic touch, and the external and internal environment that make simple fingering pure lovemaking.
My sex life is already great. What more can I get from this workshop?
Sexuality isn't static; it's constantly changing and evolving, just like you! That's why it's so much fun to learn new things, explore boundaries, and play with them.
What you'll gain from this workshop isn't just the practical techniques. We'll also explore the tension between seduction, giving and delaying pleasure, and the game of giving and receiving. So, there's something new for everyone to explore.
Is this workshop only focused on the recipient's pleasure?
Even though this workshop is about giving someone else an ecstatic vaginal massage, that doesn't mean you, the giver, won't enjoy it!
From many testimonials , we can see how much pleasure it brings those who give massages to see their partners enjoying themselves so much. On top of that, as the instigator of all this ecstasy, you'll feel powerful, sexy, and capable! How wonderful is it to see your partner curl up with pleasure and delight, and you bringing it all along?
How much time should I invest in this workshop?
We recommend setting aside at least one hour for this workshop so you can truly absorb the material. You can also choose to complete the workshop in stages at your own pace.
Do I always have access to the content and video lessons?
Yes, you will retain access to the learning platform so you can always return to review and re-watch the workshop.
Can I also watch the workshops on my tablet or smartphone?
Yes, that's possible. You can access it on your smartphone or tablet with your login details. Please note: the video's sound doesn't turn on automatically. To do so, click the sound icon in the video. The workshop platform also doesn't work on outdated internet browsers (see next question).
On which internet browsers can I follow the workshops?
The workshop learning platform doesn't work on Internet Explorer, Linux, Chromium, or outdated browsers. Which ones do? On desktop: Chrome, Firefox, Safari, and Microsoft Edge. On smartphones: iOS Safari 11 and later, Chrome, and Samsung Internet. Make sure you've updated to the latest browser version for smooth and fast operation of the learning platform.
Is a refund possible?
No. After purchasing the workshop, we do not provide refunds.
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MASTURBATION & SELF LOVE
Talking about sex usually focuses on sex in relation to the other person. In this "Masturbation & Self-Love" workshop, we'll focus entirely on our own capacity for autonomous pleasure and the art of self-love.
This workshop is the foundation of all our workshops, because love and sexual pleasure start with yourself. Self-knowledge, self-love, self-confidence, and self-touch!
This workshop is about your feelings and the subtle processes of your body, your vagina
and your own eroticism.
This workshop is for & by you!
The 'Original Workshop Masturbation & Self-Love' is given by our sexpert: Froukje.
our online video workshop:
Complete with worksheets, assignments, explanations of techniques, and in-depth lessons in a dedicated learning environment. This video workshop is available online on our learning platform and can be followed and reviewed at your own pace.
WHAT WILL YOU LEARN?
- The complete anatomy and pleasure points.
- The meaning of self-love.
- Insight into your personal sexual desires.
- The power of ritual, attention and intention.
- A relaxing and ecstatic Taoist vulva and vagina massage.
- The inner and outer ingredients to bring yourself to ecstasy and stay there.
WHY WOULD YOU LEARN THIS?
- It increases your self-confidence and self-love.
- You will learn to know your body and pleasure points better and how to stimulate them.
- The attention you pay to yourself will improve your entire sex life, including partner sex.
-
You expand your sexual spectrum: by having more tools in your sexual life, you enrich
and you broaden your sexual spectrum and the playing field becomes more exciting, bigger, richer
and more blissful!
WHAT DO YOU NEED?
- For 'Masturbation & Self-Love for the Yoni' you will need a grapefruit and lubricant.
content packages
CHOOSE FROM THE FOLLOWING PACKAGES BELOW
drop your package directly into your shopping cart!
Choose from the following packages:
- Fine:
Workshop video including learning environment: 29.99. - Great:
Workshop video including learning environment + dildo & lubricant: 7 €4.99 (incl. shipping costs). - 'Super':
Workshop video including learning environment + dildo, lubricant, massage candle and stroking feather: 84.99 (including shipping costs).
* All our products are body friendly.
Complete your order below & have fun!
Fine
Great
Super
OUR SEXPERT
Meet Froukje
Froukje studied Cultural Anthropology (University of Amsterdam) and specializes in Gender and Sexuality Studies at San Francisco State University. She grew up fascinated by how people express gender identity and sexuality.
REVIEWS
I first took this workshop with you 10 years ago, and now I'm doing it again via Zoom. This workshop is so amazing that my entire circle of friends took it on my recommendation. It has brought so much to my relationship with my husband that I recommend it to everyone. It's a truly fantastic course that you both have so much fun with. I'm especially grateful because it has given me so much more self-confidence. After 20 years of marriage, we entered a new phase together after the workshop, where I dare to take more initiative. And that's why we also took a tantra course together. I wanted a refresher, and I really enjoyed the handjob workshop. It made me so happy. Thank you, dear women, and keep up the good work!
Anonymous about the workshop 'Subtraction & Lingam Massage'
"I could always get so impatient with my partner's good intentions. I usually quickly adopted his approach. That didn't feel good for us together, which is why I gave him this workshop as a gift. It meant a lot to us, especially because we're only now discovering that sex is something you can learn. I really didn't know how to explain to him why his efforts weren't working for me. I found the stress incredibly annoying, because it wasn't fun for him, and it actually made me angry. It was all over and done with! We benefited so much from the workshop and learned so many special things about how sexual energy works and how you can summon it. And indeed, as you say: sex isn't that difficult at all, but you do have to know it!
PS: We immediately bought the books you recommended. We highly recommend them. Thanks for everything!
G. about the workshop 'Fingering & Yoni Massage' "
For the first time in my life, I decided I needed to take some time for sex. It was a coincidence, because I came across the masturbation workshop. I don't have any problems with masturbation and I do it quite a lot. It's almost a routine for me. My method is usually the same: I have a nice vibrator and dildo, and with my favorite fantasy, I come effortlessly. That's fine in itself, but of course, I also knew there had to be more to it. I've indeed been able to experience that since I took the workshop with you. I've had a personal experience that has deeply moved me. My body is energized and feels like I'm aware of myself for the first time. I feel like I'm at the beginning of a journey in which I'm going to get to know myself. Fascinating! I feel that sex isn't about coming, but about connecting with yourself. I'm curious to see how this develops further.
Anonymous about the workshop 'Masturbation & Self-Love for the Yoni'
FAQ
What happens next after the purchase?
Is this workshop with clothes on?
Yes, we'll practice on a dildo. This way you can surprise someone later, and you'll already have the techniques down pat!
Who is this workshop intended for?
This workshop is for anyone with a vagina who wants to discover even more pleasure, sensation, and ecstasy within themselves. It's a masturbation and self-love workshop, entirely and exclusively for you!
While we often write "her" and talk about "women," it's also possible that you don't identify as female but do have a vagina. Everyone is welcome here to develop themselves in love, joy, and freedom.
Do I need a partner for this workshop?
No, absolutely not. A side effect is that you'll also learn to communicate your desires better to potential partners, because you'll soon have a better idea of what you like!
Can I give a workshop as a gift?
Will I learn practical techniques?
Yes, you'll learn 20 massage and finger techniques to explore within yourself. We'll also address important aspects such as breathing, dynamic touch, imagination, and the external and internal environment.
You'll get to know yourself better, your anatomy, pleasure points, and what you enjoy. This way, regular, familiar masturbation becomes an adventurous and erotic journey of discovery with the most important person in your life: yourself!
My solo sex life is already great. What more can I get from this workshop?
There is something for everyone in this workshop to explore further. Perhaps you want to awaken more sensation in your vagina, discover the G-Zone and learn to squirt, feel more love for your vulva and body, are you curious about tantric massage techniques or do you want to feel your orgasm, which mainly takes place in the pelvis, in your entire body?
We'll provide you with practical and inspiring techniques, tips, and exercises to help you explore and enrich your solo sex life. What else is there to discover?
How much time should I invest in this workshop?
If you want to take the entire workshop in one go, we recommend that you set aside at least 2 hours so that you can really absorb the material.
It's best, however, if you follow the workshop in stages. This way, you can try out the exercises, integrate them, and continue with the workshop at your own pace.
Do I always have access to the content and video lessons?
Yes, you'll retain access to the learning platform so you can always return to review the workshop, even after you've completed the entire workshop.
Can I also watch the workshops on my tablet or smartphone?
Yes, that's possible. You can access it on your smartphone or tablet with your login details. Please note: the video's sound doesn't turn on automatically. To do so, click the sound icon in the video. The workshop platform also doesn't work on outdated internet browsers (see next question).
On which internet browsers can I follow the workshops?
The workshop learning platform doesn't work on Internet Explorer, Linux, Chromium, or outdated browsers. Which ones do? On desktop: Chrome, Firefox, Safari, and Microsoft Edge. On smartphones: iOS Safari 11 and later, Chrome, and Samsung Internet. Make sure you've updated to the latest browser version for smooth and fast operation of the learning platform.
Is a refund possible?
No. After purchasing the workshop, we do not provide refunds.
