Pamper the penis with a lingam massage
Giving a sensual and skillful penis massage that will leave your partner shivering with pleasure...? Who wouldn't want that in their repertoire? A lingam (penis) massage is a fantastic experience for both the receiver and the giver. These delightful techniques have positively changed many (sex) lives. Read all about this unique penis massage in this blog post.
What is a lingam massage?
You might be wondering: what is a lingam massage and where does the term come from? Lingam means "pole of light" in Sanskrit. This name and meaning are found in ancient tantra scriptures.
When masturbating, the intention is to bring someone to a climax as quickly as possible. A lingam massage, however, is an extensive massage of the penis. Our techniques come from Taoist and tantric Sources that assume that sexual energy is life energy. This means that energy can be generated and increased, not only for pleasure but for the well-being of your entire being. This allows us to experience more love and respect for the body. This is a message we fully support.
There is a difference between a therapeutic tantric and a erotic Tantric lingam massage. The former isn't about sexual arousal or eroticism, but about unblocking stagnant energy. An erotic penis massage is explicitly about pleasure, love, and sexuality.
Penis massage: a full body experience
The sexual energy generated by penis massage becomes life energy and spreads widely. This results in pleasure and life energy felt throughout the body. Men—and people with a penis—tend to keep their sexual energy primarily focused in the penis and pelvic floor. This concentration can lead to tension building in this area, which can stagnate sexual energy. A "peak orgasm" is the result; it's quick, brief, and intense. After that, the fun is over.
However, when that sexual energy is completely distributed throughout the body, a full body An orgasm can be experienced. Experienced Taoist and Tantric practitioners can achieve orgasm without ejaculation and thus have multiple orgasms in succession; comparable to the orgasmic capacity of the vagina. Also, after a good penis massage, the orgasm and ejaculation will be longer and come in waves.
How do you give a lingam massage?
In 8 steps you can give a fantastic penis massage:
- The preparation
- Intention and connection
- Breathing and feeling
- Erotic massage
- The first contact
- The lingam massage
- Applying Taoist techniques
- To phase out
1. Preparing for the penis massage
Before you begin the lingam massage, prepare yourself. Make sure the room is at the right temperature and you have all the necessary supplies on hand. The most important of these are a silicone-based lubricant and Massage oil . The massage oil is for a fragrant, stimulating body massage, and the lubricant is for penis massage. We recommend a silicone lubricant, as it stays nice and smooth for a long time and can also be used as a body massage gel.
2. Intention & connection
This isn't just a quick handjob. To truly give your partner a different experience, it's important to make the intention of the massage clear. What do you both want from this massage? With a penis massage, you don't work directly toward a climax; your intention is to evoke pleasure, relaxation, and sensitivity. Therefore, tell your partner that nothing is expected in return and that this massage is truly just for them. This ensures that your partner can fully receive and relax.
3. Breathing & feeling
Invite your partner to breathe deeply into their belly. You can help by placing a hand on their belly and asking them to breathe into it. When you breathe deeply, you'll relax more and be able to allow more sensation. This is the foundation of all the wonderful techniques you'll be using!
4. Erotic massage
Before you step on his pole of light Dive in, start with an erotic relaxation massage. This doesn't mean you have to work out all the knots in his back, but it's important that you've touched him everywhere. Have your partner lie on their stomach and start massaging their back, legs, and feet. Need inspiration? We've listed the most important erotic massage techniques I've listed it for you. Massage, caress, and use your entire body as a massage tool. Then ask your partner to turn around and continue with the front of their body. Be sure to leave the penis out of the picture for now.
5. First contact
Now it's time to incorporate the penis into the massage. Build it up slowly. Apply plenty of lubricant and warm it between your hands. Then place one hand over your heart and the other cupping the penis. This creates contact between the heart and the penis, which is very important!
6. Lingam massage
With a loving and firm touch, you gradually build up the lingam massage. Start by stroking the penis, moving it all the way down the body. Using the (flaccid) penis as a clockwise motion, stroke it in a circular motion at each hour. Note: This is only possible if the penis is still flaccid, otherwise the massage will end prematurely!
7. Penis massage and Taoist techniques
Ideally, you combine penis massage with Taoist techniques. Below, we share an excerpt from our online workshop , in which the 'orange juicer' technique is explained by our sexpert Madeleine. In our live workshop on jerking off and lingam massage We'll share 12 comprehensive techniques with you, so you'll learn even more about how to initiate, build up, and end a lingam massage. In addition to these techniques, the workshop will also teach you how to give someone a quick and enjoyable handjob.
8. Discontinuing the massage
A penis also experiences separation anxiety. Therefore, never simply take your hands off him after the massage, but remain connected after the lingam massage is over. The end either occurs after climax, or you can choose not to ejaculate and spread the pent-up sexual energy throughout your entire body.
Why a penis massage?
Receiving a penis massage is a very intimate, arousing, and beautiful experience. Men and people with penises often experience a lot of performance pressure when it comes to sex. It's precisely by completely surrendering to this massage that they can experience deep feelings of pleasure and orgasmic potential.
A lingam massage is a fantastic way to gain more depth and control over your sexuality. Because you can experience more sensations in your penis in a relaxed setting, you'll become more familiar with the sensations in your body, allowing you to better manage your sexual energy. This will help you prevent premature ejaculation and resolve erectile dysfunction. Above all, the techniques will cultivate more sensation in the penis and bring more passion to your sexual life!
“A lingam massage stimulates the connection, appreciation and love between you and your partner.”
Massaging the penis is also a wonderful exercise in the relationship of giving and receiving. Give the massage without expecting anything in return. Experience it as a gift for the recipient. By not expecting anything in return, they can fully surrender and relax. At other times, the roles of giver and receiver can be reversed, for example, with a yoni massage ...!
Become a penis massage expert
Knowing the pleasure points of the penis and Taoist massage techniques will give you enormously more self-confidence and sexual pleasure. Learn and develop in your own way the external and internal ingredients to bring someone to ecstasy.
With this knowledge and skill, you'll develop your sexuality. While everyone is different and will discover for themselves what feels good and pleasurable, there's still so much to learn about sex. And of course, it's incredibly rewarding to bring someone to great pleasure and ecstasy and to know what your next steps are...!
But above all, penis massage is about experimenting and playing. Discovering new things and being able to laugh together when things go wrong. By having more tools in your sexual life, you enrich and broaden your sexual spectrum, making the playing field more exciting, bigger, richer, and more pleasurable! So don't wait any longer and delve deeper into penis massage today!
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