Oral sex? Yes, please!

Mail & Female was curious about what people would like to do/receive more often in bed. The research poll, "My partner should do it more often...", resulted in over 2,000 responses, and 60% said they'd like to be licked/blowjob more often!

Laughter in bed is plentiful; only 6% would like to see their partner laugh more; 5% mention "more delicious breakfasts," and 12% want "more and more frequent nice massages." But 60% are lacking in blowjobs and oral sex. We decided to do something about it. We have our own ideas about what's wrong and would like to give you some tips!

Why We Think People Don't Have Enough Oral Sex & Why You Should Do It Anyway!

1. Too tired to give oral sex or blow jobs
If you're too tired to have sex, you're usually also too tired to engage in extensive oral sex and oral sex. Oral sex is fantastic, but it seems like a lot of work and hassle if you don't have the energy. If fatigue often trumps your sex drive, you should realize that sex makes you happier and more energetic! It's absolutely worth it.

2. Lack of experience
If you've never really looked at a pussy or cock, you might not know where to lick, suck, and caress. We're not born with this talent, but luckily we can learn it! You might find it difficult to ask your partner what they like, but they're probably happy to tell you. Especially when you're still in the early stages of lovemaking, ask: "Do you like it this much? Is this the right spot? How does it feel?" A simple but effective way to improve communication and pleasure can be a great help. In the mood product. Also read our blogs about Pipes and To blow .

3. Fear of not being able to match your predecessors/rivals
Sometimes thinking about your partner's sexual past can be a bit intimidating. People tend to compare themselves to previous partners. But right now, you're together and you want to have a good time. The past is the past, focus on the present.

4. There are people who find it a bit humiliating
"Going down" isn't just a physical act; you also have to be in the mood. Some people consider it submissive; "you're serving your partner." But think of it as a gift to give your loved one that pleasure!

5. It is difficult to guess your partner's wishes
Oral sex requires more concentration than fucking. When you lick or go down on someone, you're the one monitoring the rhythm, the right spot, and the signals (sighs, moans, hardness, and wetness). As a sexual object, you can provide some direction, but do so carefully; you don't want to give your partner the feeling that they're not doing it right. So, it's better to say, "Yes, and I find it even hotter when you go harder/softer/upwards/downwards" than "Do you want it harder/softer?" Your partner's moans and movements often indicate that you're enjoying it and that they're becoming increasingly aroused. It could also mean they're expressing a desire. Perhaps you should use your tongue differently? Perhaps they want more attention on their glans, or they'd like a finger in their pussy? These are signals.

6. You just don't like the smell or taste of it
Taste and smell are part of intimacy, and especially sex! These scents also have a natural function: they serve to heighten sexual arousal. In our culture, many people have lost the ability to enjoy (sexual) scents. It's time to find "nasty" enjoyable again!

7. You find it difficult to surrender
Letting go of control and focusing entirely on yourself is especially difficult for women. Selfishly prioritizing your own pleasure is something we as women are usually not taught. Consider it a challenge to develop that. It will benefit you beyond your sex life as well :)

Well, what are you waiting for?!

We wish you lots of fun and enjoyment with the wonderful giving and receiving of Oral Sex

Also always remember safe sex :, shop here for dental dams, condoms and latex gloves.