Pushing boundaries

Pushing boundaries is essentially synonymous with making choices. Whether you're entering a relationship, choosing a job, or buying a house, everything involves making choices. Sex is no different.

But in sex, we often act tensely. Much of this tension stems from the fact that we're all conditioned about what we consider "normal sex." But what is that, actually? And what do you gain from pushing your boundaries? What if you want to play and experiment in love and sex?

Madonna, whore, mother and virgin?!

How can you fully expose yourself when you know everything you do is judged, or worse, condemned? How can you let go of all those women and goddesses hidden within you to become yourself? And just when you think you've figured it out and have proven capable of adapting to your role, you fall in love and the world is turned upside down. You can start over again! Wonderful, you wouldn't have it any other way. Constantly discovering a new part of yourself, expanding your horizons, and pushing your boundaries.
While on the one hand you need safety and the security of boundaries, it seems that boundaries mainly limit us and make us smaller than we are.
That's why we must push boundaries and break out to ultimately become more ourselves. Because we want to be free to love who we want; starting with ourselves.

Penis envy?

How many girls would much rather have been born a boy? After all, boys are allowed to do more and have more adventures than you are with those slow-witted dolls in your pink room. And once you become a teenage girl, it's your birthday! Assaulters and rapists are lurking everywhere, and be careful; don't go out in a short skirt or shorts. That's pretty much how most of us grow up (it's conveniently forgotten that most rapes occur in "safe" places for women, like the home).

No, you're better off as a boy!
Or hey... wait a minute, you're not going to let that get to you, are you? It's way too much fun being a girl/woman!

Gender bender

But it's really fun and educational to actually switch roles. And where better to do that than in and around the bed? One of the nicest things he has that you don't is a dick. But Mail & Female just happens to have one. Shop full :). So come pick out a nice dick and experience the adventures of a dream character attached to it. In our Workshop Jerking off & Lingam massage We always ask participants to hold their penis in front of them for a moment. This is hilarious but also very confronting; it almost immediately feels powerful… Many women immediately adopt a different position, stand proudly with their thing at the ready. You wonder if that's the case for him too…? Also read the blog Queer & Playing Your Role.

Pushing boundaries

What is that, and what possibilities are there? That's what we at the Love Academy would love to discuss. We want to inspire you to explore your own boundaries and challenge you to transcend them. Simply because everyone has the right to develop themselves and become fully human. Your sexual well-being is essential in this. On this site, we also want to discuss topics that are considered unusual in a normal way. Perhaps you don't feel personally addressed at all, but are simply curious?

Welcome!

At the Love Academy, where you can look at yourself without self-censorship and feel what is good for you!