BDSM: Exciting Clothing & Tools

An exciting part of the game is often the clothing. Clothing that exudes power or, conversely, submission. For many people, these elements are necessary to truly get into character.

• Do you need special clothing and tools? No, but try on a hat and feel the instant sense of power. Besides, dressing up is a huge part of the fun! You can really surprise others with it, which enhances the game.
• Equipment like whips, cuffs, nipple clamps, etc., is usually readily available. It's important to ensure all these items are safe to use. Only then can you enjoy safe and sexy play without worry. Therefore, test all equipment and toys before use so you understand how everything works.
• Regular leather wrist or ankle straps are good for restraining someone's arms and legs, but they're not designed to hang someone from a ceiling. Handcuffs also have limitations and can cut off blood flow if pulled too hard. A useful tool for restraining someone is a door hook.

Warning: Always keep in mind how the ties can be quickly released in an emergency. This is especially important for cuffs with a lock. Scissors are handy to cut any obstructing rope or fabric if necessary.

Before the game starts, agree on a number of things:

• Agree on a safe word beforehand; " Oh no, stop ," might be perceived as part of the game and interpreted as " Oh yeah, keep going !" So, agree on a clear safe word beforehand. This is a signal that lets you know if your partner is crossing a boundary or is at least getting close. Generally, " Mercy " and " Stop " are used here.
• Trust someone COMPLETELY before engaging in kinky play. Otherwise, you can't surrender yourself...

Fantasy Tools for BDSM Beginners

• Blindfold. The fun thing about blindfolding is that you disable your sight, which heightens your other senses. You feel more; you smell and hear more…
• Handcuffs. For beginners: consider the Velcro version, made of soft fabric. These are comfortable and easier to remove than the cuffs with a key.
• Whip. A whip with suede thongs is soft, so you can whip it around, but also gently caress it.
• Caress feather. The soft feathers are an erotic sensation. Especially when you're blindfolded...
• Vibrator. For example: MiMi from Je Joué. It feels soft as velvet and has a powerful vibration…
• Nipple clamps. Your nipples are a source of erotic sensations. If your nipples have been lovingly abused, the effect will bring a smile to your face all day long…
• Ben Wa balls. The vaginally stimulating balls you wear throughout the day to feel sexy and remind you that your pelvic area is your source of pleasure...
• Massage candle: Once melted, the oil is warm, but not hot, and these fragrant candles are a wonderfully warm massage oil.
• Butt plug: an anal dildo specifically designed for anal use: it cannot slip inside.
• Don't move: For this play feature, you don't need a slatted bed or complicated hanging systems: a long strap goes under the mattress/bed, to which the hand and ankle cuffs are attached.
• TRIPLEGLIDE: Because this body glide formula: 1+1=3 is indispensable and fantastic for everything…

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