Deepa Paul | You can ask me anything
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"Deepa is the embodiment of a woman fully empowered. Ask Me How It Works offers a stunningly vulnerable and poetic glimpse into her most intimate world and her journey to sexual liberation. If this book doesn't change your perspective on relationships, nothing will." Gillian Anderson .
“A memoir that offers a candid and astute perspective on love in all its forms.” Stylist .
“Raw, vulnerable and unexpectedly recognizable.” Eastern Eye.
Summary book
Here is my husband.
Here is my friend.
And here I am.
In the early morning hours in Amsterdam, Deepa Paul climbs out of her boyfriend's bed. She gets dressed, leaves with a kiss, and cycles home, where her husband welcomes her with open arms—his contentment softly echoing next to hers. No trace of shame, deceit, or guilt, only the honesty and compassion necessary to make this life possible—though that wasn't always a given.
You might have questions. Who came up with the idea? What are the rules? Do you ever feel jealous?
In this memoir, Deepa answers those questions with openness and tenderness, while also exploring her own doubts:
Can I desire what I want and still remain true to the life I've chosen? Do I deserve this? Is it worth it?
Strikingly relatable and sparklingly written, this is the story of a woman who comes to know and liberate her desires, who switches between mother and lover, and who finds the courage to ask for the marriage she wants; beyond the marriage she has.
One question at a time.
More praise
“A spectacular memoir, written with flair and style.” Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah.
"An honest look at how to balance multiple loves and motherhood. Expect your assumptions to be turned upside down." Style.
“A fascinating and heartfelt portrait of sex, intimacy, and non-monogamy.” Clover Stroud.
“Reads like a long-delayed, intimate conversation with an old friend — leaving you excited and full of possibility.” Yael van der Wouden .
“A courageous and elegantly executed memoir about writing your own rules, shedding shame, and fighting for a marriage that works.” The Sunday Times Ireland.
“A generous, imaginative exploration of how to live differently.” Rebecca Wait.
Pages: 432.