Prostate Massage: Everything You Need to Know

A prostate massage provides great sexual pleasure, which, for us, is of course an important side effect besides its health benefits. It promotes healthy blood flow to the prostate. The prostate, also known as the "male G-spot" or P-spot, can be stimulated for more intense orgasms and sexual satisfaction. You've probably also heard of prostate milking, which is the same as massage. Because of the unique physical and emotional experience, prostate massage is a hot and sexy extension of sexual pleasure.

"Climaxing" from a prostate massage is an intense and longer-lasting experience than a "traditional" orgasm through penis stimulation. While climaxing doesn't involve ejaculation, it involves a climax that completely shakes the body. The result is a profound sense of satisfaction. Quite different from the peak experience of ejaculation. Because it also involves an exercise in patience, surrender, and trust, it's also a mental process. The fact that it helps prevent health problems and improve sexual performance also makes this phenomenon incredibly appealing.

Many people are curious about the technique and experience of this "prostate milking." But how do you get started, what do you need, and how do you overcome the potentially high threshold you might have?

We would like to make this sexual pleasure as pleasant and safe as possible for you by telling you everything about prostate massage.

What is a prostate massage and where is the prostate located?

Prostate massage is a technique that stimulates the prostate gland. Where is the prostate located? The prostate is a walnut-sized gland located inside the body . It can only be reached through the anus. The illustration shows that the spot is located above the base of the penis, between the bladder and the penis, about 5-10 cm below the bladder.

The prostate plays an important role in the production of prostatic fluid, which accompanies sperm during ejaculation. This prolongs sperm's lifespan. Regularly flushing out prostatic fluid is beneficial, as it prevents bacteria from settling there. It's also claimed that milking the prostate can prevent prostate cancer. It's a very important organ, and it's good to know that it's also a sexually sensitive and pleasurable area for stimulation and massage!

The benefits of prostate massage:

1. Improved prostate health: Prostate massage can help prevent prostate problems such as prostatitis and prostate cancer. Massaging the prostate can help eliminate toxins and improve blood flow, promoting the overall health and well-being of the prostate.
2. More intense orgasms: The prostate contains many nerve endings that are sensitive to stimulation. Massaging the prostate can lead to intense orgasms.
3. Enhanced sexual pleasure: Prostate massage can help increase sexual pleasure and promote healthy sexual function. It can also help prevent erectile dysfunction by strengthening the PC muscles and increasing sexual pleasure and the intensity of orgasms.
4. Stress and tension reduction: Prostate massage can help reduce stress and tension in the body. It can help you relax and surrender to pleasure. This promotes awareness of the body's powers and fosters a sense of self-love and confidence.

How to give a prostate massage:

Before you begin this special massage, there are some preparations you can make to ensure it goes smoothly and without any worries.

1. Lubricant - first of all you have lubricant Necessary when massaging the prostate. The sphincter muscle, or sphincter, is not comparable to the vaginal opening. It ensures that everything is nice and smooth, making the process easier and more comfortable. Read our blog about anal sex. more about the functioning of the butt (muscles).
2. Hygiene - if you're both nervous about getting dirty, the recipient can take an internal douche or enema beforehand. We also recommend latex gloves, which provide a smooth surface to prevent internal damage to the anus.
3. Trim your nails! You'll be applying quite a bit of pressure during the prostate massage, and your intestinal lining is sensitive. So wash your hands, trim, and file your nails beforehand.

The prostate massage

Now that you've prepared everything, it's time for the massage itself. Relaxation is essential, especially for the receiver. The sphincter muscle needs to relax so you can gain internal access to the anus and massage the prostate. Therefore, the receiver is always in charge; good communication, attentiveness, and patience from the giver are paramount.

1. Make it erotic - If you're doing this for the first time, you'll be curious, and the excitement can make you both nervous. Increase arousal by stimulating the penis, testicles, and perineum (the area between the testicles and the anus) with plenty of lubricant. Only approach the anus when your partner is aroused.
2. Enter - Never force it, gently massage the anus and surrounding area until your partner relaxes and you feel you can enter easily. Remember to use plenty of lubricant. Then hold still for a moment with your finger so the receiver can get used to the sensation. Ask if you want to go further, and gradually work your way deeper. Take your time.
3. Prostate Milking & Come Here - When your middle finger is 5-10 cm deep inside, bend it towards your navel. You should feel a walnut-sized marble; this is your prostate. Now you can apply pressure, making circular motions with your "come here" finger, playfully applying pressure.
4. Communicate - Ask your partner what they like. Everyone is different, and so are their preferences. Especially in sex, consent is key! Together you can discover what works and what you both enjoy.
5. Double trouble - At the same time, you can stimulate the penis with your other hand and bring your partner to a wonderful orgasm. Tips for penis massage can be found in this blog . Remember that prostate massage is about the prostate, not the penis! Some people can also achieve orgasm from prostate stimulation, but it takes practice. The sensation of the actions is especially important here, not necessarily the goal of orgasm. Experiment and discover!
   
   External Prostate Massage

You can also approach prostate massage through the perineum. The perineum is the area between the scrotum and the anus. It's an erotically sensitive point that massage improves blood flow to the prostate. Stimulate the prostate by gently pressing and rubbing with your fingers. A vibrator also works wonderfully for this purpose!

How to use a prostate stimulator

A prostate toy specifically designed for this purpose is often a better option than a finger. Such a toy works well together, but also works well solo. Use a good lubricant here, too, that's appropriate for the type of toy you're using. Prostate massage can also be approached through the perineum. The perineum is the area between the scrotum and the anus. It's an erotically sensitive point that, through massage, improves blood flow to the prostate. Stimulate this by gently pressing and rubbing with your fingers. A vibrator also works wonderfully for this purpose!

Butt plug

If you want to stimulate your P-spot, you can easily use a butt plug, sliding your butt back and forth over the toy. A butt plug A suction cup toy is a great option for this. A plug that works well for this solo use is the Rude Boy . Always make sure a butt plug has a good stopper at the end. This prevents the entire thing from sliding in. Some toys are therefore unsuitable for safe penetration. We consider this, among other things, when selecting the toys we offer. This ensures you enjoy yourself safely and don't lose anything inside your anus.

Prostate stimulators

There are also specially designed prostate toys with vibrators, which vibrate wonderfully throughout the anal area. An anal vibrator is less suitable for massage, as the prostate requires pressure and movement to be activated.

An effective toy is the Bootie Ring from the Fun Factory. 

You stimulate the prostate by moving a toy back and forth.

A good way to do this is to make a rocking back and forth movement while sitting.

The Aneros brand has developed the prostate stimulator in every detail. These tools also have a component that massages the perineum.

You can do the movement manually, or stimulate the movement with your PC muscles.

The beneficial effect of prostate massage

Prostate massage helps maintain prostate health. The prostate is a vitally important part of the body for penis owners. This gland helps flush out harmful substances and bacteria from the residual semen that is released. This is why it's also called prostate milking . Prostate milking can help improve prostate health. Regular prostate massage can help improve blood flow and prevent inflammation. It can also help reduce the symptoms of an enlarged prostate (BPH). There are indications that it can prevent prostate cancer, but there's no scientific evidence to support this, and as far as we know, no research is being conducted on it.

Because you learn to relax, prostate massage can help relieve pain, tension, and stress in the pelvic area. But above all, it's pleasurable for the recipient! A prostate climax is a fantastic, fully physical experience, comparable to a G-spot orgasm in the vagina. It's an important addition to your sex life, an experience that brings together many aspects: physical, psychological, and emotional. It's an experience and a practice that has had a tremendous positive impact on the lives of many people.

Also not unimportant is the overall improved condition of the prostate and PC muscles. This improved condition is good for harder erections and better ejaculation control.
Want to learn more about penis pleasure? Check out our workshop. 'Jerking off & Lingam Massage'.

Precautions for Prostate Massage

Although prostate massage is generally safe, there are precautions you should take into account. First, preparation is important, especially regarding safety to prevent injury.

Second, if you have a history of prostate problems, such as prostate cancer or BPH, it's wise to consult a medical professional. If it doesn't feel right or you experience pain during massage, stop and consult your doctor to have the condition of your prostate checked.

Conclusion

Prostate massage, prostate milking: it's healthy and it's pleasurable! The best combination there is! Follow our preparations and tips, and you're sure to have a great time.

Did you know that the P-Spot for women and vagina owners is the G-Spot?