Yoni massage: erotic, emotional and exciting
A yoni massage is not only experienced as erotic, but also emotionally and spiritually vibrant. Yoni is Sanskrit for "Holy Temple." This refers to the vulva, vagina, uterus—in short, the entire shebang. You can experience heavenly pleasure with a yoni massage...!
Yoni massage: the difference with fingering
In our "Fingering & Yoni Massage" workshop, we'll delve deeply into all the pleasure points. We'll cover how to touch them and the essential ingredients for fingering someone quickly and effectively, bringing them to ecstasy. The goal of fingering is to give someone a quick sensation of pleasure, like a rocket launching into the air, leading directly to a catapulting orgasm.
Yoni massage, on the other hand, is a relaxing, orgasmic vulva and vaginal massage, creating ecstasy. Therefore, we don't aim directly for orgasm, as with fingering. A yoni massage is often described as magical. The sensations of pleasure flow through the entire body in undulating movements through these movements.
What makes a yoni massage so special?
Taoist techniques can inspire you to massage the vulva and vagina. But of course, more than just the right techniques is needed to create this magic.
When a woman, or person with a vagina, feels safe and completely relaxed, they can open up. This " opening " is very subtle and allows them to do more. Feeling . This intensifies all touch, awakening the senses and allowing for a deeper experience. Sensitivity is therefore essential for vaginal massage, both for the giver and the receiver. Positive effects of a yoni massage:
- More pleasure and freedom in your (sex) life
- Increases sexual awareness
- Stimulates your libido
- You become more sensitive and orgasmic
- Helps to reduce emotional blocks
- Love and appreciation for yourself and each other
Pleasure and orgasm create a cocktail of happiness hormones, which is not only good for your emotional state, but also for your physical body and brain!
Taoism: Peak & Valley Orgasms by Massaging Yoni
So the goal of yoni massage isn't necessarily an orgasm; it's not fingering. If we do call it a goal, it's pleasure, with an orgasm being a pleasant bonus. We distinguish between: peak orgasms and valley orgasms .
A peak orgasm can be experienced when you work towards an orgasm relatively quickly. Your sexual energy builds and you direct it in a straight line towards orgasm. The orgasm is often a powerful and brief release, which is why it's called a "peak orgasm." After the high peak, your sexual energy quickly comes back down. This is often the "goal" of fingering.
Massage the vulva and experience waves of pleasure
There are other types of orgasms as well. Multiple orgasms in succession, and even orgasms that last for a very long time, usually stem from valley orgasms, as described in Taoism. The path to orgasm is less focused on the orgasm itself, but more on the waves of pleasure that wax and wane... This makes the final climax more intense. Read more about this here. the female orgasm.
Ancient Taoism teaches us that sexual energy is the only energy we can generate and multiply ourselves. We can use this energy to flow through our bodies to heal our organs, our brain, and our emotional body where needed. That's why sexual energy is also called life energy. The energy we generate through our sexual desires, aiming for orgasm, can be used in a completely different way, namely, to become healthier and happier.
Massaging the yoni and sexual energy
A yoni massage is a fantastic way to awaken sexual energy and access this source of life energy.
The goal of a yoni massage is therefore a pleasurable experience of surrender. It aims to awaken sexual energy and allow it to flow throughout the body. Precisely because the goal isn't a quick "peak orgasm," but rather the pleasure circulates throughout the body, the sensation of pleasure becomes increasingly greater, deeper, and more ecstatic.
Healing & liberating
From a place of surrender and safety, someone receiving a yoni massage can allow more feeling to flow. This can sometimes trigger all sorts of emotions and sensations, from crying to bursting into laughter. These are often stuck areas, emotions, or tensions that are released by the energy that is set in motion. A yoni massage can therefore also be experienced as healing. This may sound emotionally charged, but allowing stagnant energy to flow again is a wonderful feeling of liberation, surrender, and flow . Especially because the force that makes everything flow is pleasure.
Safety and relaxation mean something different to everyone. So ask your partner how you can ensure she experiences this, what she needs, and offer suggestions. These questions, which you might not normally ask, can open up entirely new and exciting areas in your (sex) life that extend far beyond vaginal massage.
How do you give a yoni massage?
A good yoni massage consists of at least the following four elements:
- Preparations
- Intention
- Relaxation massage
- Lovely talk
Preparations before the vulva massage
Before you begin the yoni massage, prepare! Make sure the space where you plan to massage your vagina and vulva is warm, well-maintained, and clean. So, create a sensual atmosphere and a comfortable temperature, as she doesn't want to be cold. That will prevent her from relaxing.
Make sure you have a towel and a nice rich massage oil. For the yoni you use a lubricant , because oil is more difficult to break down by the vagina, there is a risk of infections.
The most important tool for yoni massage is you! So be dedicated, relaxed, and above all, be yourself. Feel free to play around with lingerie, clothing, and accessories like masks or jewelry. It's also important to keep your nails short and your hands well-groomed. If your hands aren't quite soft enough, latex gloves are a great option. They can also add a sensual touch. Latex gloves become super smooth with a silicone lubricant. A silicone lubricant also allows you to give a full-body massage. See the collection. hygiene for useful products.
Intention of the massage
Setting an intention is a great way to start a yoni massage. What do you, as the giver, want your partner to experience? What does she need? You can begin by stating this intention and asking what you can give your partner. Discuss your partner's desires and boundaries beforehand. What does your partner truly desire, and what are the boundaries? For example, does she or she not want penetration, and is the anus a boundary?
It's crucial that "nothing is expected in return from the recipient." The massage is a gift you give your partner, without expecting anything in return. This relieves potential pressure on the recipient, allowing them to fully relax and focus on themselves. In this way, a yoni massage becomes an experience of total surrender with room for ecstasy. And we bet your loved one will want to share a similar experience with you someday! That could be a yoni massage, but also a wonderful... lingam massage are!
Relaxation massage
The yoni massage usually starts with a loving relaxing massage of the entire body. Here you can read which erotic massage techniques you can use for this. Women generally need longer to warm up sexually than men, so don't rush and give her all the time she needs to explore all the layers of relaxation and pleasure.
Start with the body; don't dive straight into the Yoni! You want the sexual energy to flow through the entire body, so it's important to touch the entire body. Once you've done this, you're ready for the Yoni Massage.
Lovely talk
Yoni means "Holy Temple" for a reason. Sincere appreciation and compliments will help your partner relax even more. Of course, they should be sincere. What do you find beautiful about your partner, what do you admire? Love, for a night or a lifetime, is an essential part of a yoni massage. So, let it flow freely, just like the lubricant.
3 techniques from the 'Fingering & Yoni Massage' workshop
In the workshop 'Fingering & Yoni Massage' We're sharing 15 techniques with you that you can experiment with and vary to find your own favorites. Here are three important and beautiful techniques:
- Vulva ironing
- Rock around the clit
- Entering the temple
The first technique is a great one to begin vulva massage with, and to repeat throughout the massage to feel the pleasure all over your body. Often, the sensations are felt only in the pelvic area. With yoni massage, we want to feel it everywhere…
Technique 1: ironing
Once she's relaxed, move toward the yoni. Applying plenty of lubricant, gently stroke upwards (from bottom to top) along her lips, over her mons pubis, hips, and abdomen. As one hand moves from her vulva, begin the same motion with the other. Meanwhile, alternate your hands from vulva to hips, abdomen, breasts, and back to vulva. This creates a connection between her yoni and the rest of her body, allowing the energy to flow.
Always maintain contact with at least one hand on her body. This maintains constant contact and prevents startling moments. Remember to always go slower than you think. Give her all the time she needs to relax and enjoy the sensations you're creating.
Technique 2: Rock around the clit
Before you even think about giving her a vaginal massage, make sure she's aroused and relaxed. So, start with a vulva massage. Because tension can build up in the groin, pay extra attention there.
The external clitoris is the most sensitive part of the vulva. It has thousands of nerve endings, making it incredibly sensitive. So, you should definitely give this fantastic pleasure organ plenty of attention :-)
Massage the clitoris, making circular movements with your finger, or stroking up and down. Be careful; some people find direct clitoral stimulation too intense, so always start with circular movements and stroking around the clitoris and build up.
TIP: During the yoni massage, don't forget the rest of her body and mind: caress her, give her a kiss, say sweet words...
Technique 3: Vaginal Massage - Entering the Holy Temple...
Only when you're certain she's aroused and in the mood should you move on to vaginal massage. How do you know for sure? By asking. Don't just push your fingers inside her, but ask her permission: "Can I enter you?" or "Would you like it if I enter you now, or should I stay on the outside?" This way, you'll be sure you're not going too fast.
A steady, slow rhythm is sensual and relaxing. That's why, during a vaginal massage, you take your time with every movement. Enter her slowly after permission. Slide your finger inside or ask her to relax and contract her pelvic floor muscles, allowing your finger to move along with her.
Not only will your hands spread sexual energy throughout her body, but she can also do this with her breathing. So ask her to breathe deeply and feel the pleasure everywhere.
Once inside, massage the vaginal wall and you can also Stimulate the G-spot . Maintain constant contact; always keep a hand on her body and pay attention to her body language. From there, follow your instincts and alternate between different techniques.
The end of the massage
The yoni massage can end in different ways. You can have a fantastic, squirting, orgasmic ending. Or you can spread gentle waves of pleasure over her body by massaging her again, leaving her with a lingering feeling. The most important thing is that everything is welcome, and you cuddle and caress her after massaging her yoni.
The most important thing…? Of course, that you're going to do it! Want to discover more techniques, deepen your knowledge, and get tips? This is a sneak peek at our workshop; come and join us for the next one! Or become an expert from the comfort of your own home with our Online Video Workshop 'Fingering & Yoni Massage'.
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